Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Genuine VS Conditional *love*

Genuine - sincerely and honestly felt or experienced

Conditional - true only for certain values of the variables or symbols involved

Based on experience, I was wishing for the first one but it turned out, I encountered the latter.

In love, I realized that no matter how well you have planned who your dream love would be, it would not follow.

I realized, in love, though you are fighting for what you believe, it would not count as it is.

I realized that everything that you have in your principles would be broken once you have gave in to some stronger force.

In just realized that TRUE love really happens when the one you are receiving is GENUINE love and not a CONDITIONAL one.

After all the realizations in my head, I discovered that no matter how I longed for a Genuine one, I was dropped at a time of a Conditional love.

Signs of a GENUINE love:

  • no demands
  • no but's, no if's
  • time can be solved
  • careers can be understood though both parties are not in the same field
  • communication is not a problem, you TALK

Signs of CONDITIONAL love:

THE TOTAL OPPOSITE OF A GENUINE LOVE

Come to think of it, I thought I was smart enough to know the signs.

But I was blind to see reality this time...

Sunday, October 05, 2008

Clearing things

It is up to you if you would believe me or not.

I will just clear myself out. If you want the truth, know my side. I think it is just fair enough to see both sides of a coin.

All I know is that when you love someone, you would be there, AS ALWAYS.

One would NOT GET TIRED of loving. You are willing to WAIT.

Pressure is not part of the dictionary of love. RESPECT is the first on the list.

And being a GENTLEMAN, you are not supposed to be the "Kiss-and-tell" type of a person.

It is just very amazing to know that you were the first one to tell the story.

Normally, the girl should be the one looking for comfort. But it seems that the other party is looking for I should have been searching.

Too bad. We have to go though all this..

Things were better before..